Some claim the sex bracelet to be an urban legend, while others are banning them from schools. Many kids and teens state that the color of a jelly bracelet worn by a young girl indicates her sexual availability or what why she is willing to do with her body. Alarmingly, this trend seems to be more prevalent with junior high girls ages 11-13. However, there seems to be little consistency with the action that each color represents.
Yellow, pink, orange, black, with or without glitter, there appears to be no limit to the colors worn by young girls with their sex bracelets, or the actions that they represent. While one color indicates a girls willingness to give a hug, another suggests that she is open to kissing, while yet another may indicate intercourse or worse. Parents of kids and young teens need to be aware of this trend and make all efforts in preventing its progression, and communicate with your teen/pre-teen about sexuality and teen sexual activity.
Although your junior high daughter may wear a colored jelly bracelet or something similar, it does not necessarily mean that she is participating in the sexual act that is represents. However, being part of the “game” by following the trend may result in young girls feeling pressured to conduct sexual acts. Plus, young boys may see it as an invitation to perpetrate acts of sexual aggression. Part of the legend suggests that if a boy breaks the bracelet off the girls wrist, or pulls her by it to a private place, he is entitled to receive the action that is symbolized by the bracelet's color.
Overall, the bracelets pose a danger, as they are assumed to act as a “sex code.” They are one fashion expression that should be prohibited. While the average age of first sexual activity varies based on gender, ethnicity, and socioeconomic status, it is often younger than one might suspect. Therefore, it is important to talk to your kids about sex from a young age, as to make sure they don't learn about it from a bracelet.
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
Thursday, February 18, 2010
Teen Obesity
Teen obesity is a growing epidemic in our nation. With today's lifestyles consisting of instant meals and giant televisions, there are millions of teens being effected by excessive weight gain. Obesity poses health risks, can create a social disability, and often results in a poor self image. Teens who become obese may develop severe depression, antagonistic behavior, and any number of weight related illnesses. With the effects of obesity causing so many problems, they bring many concerned parents to seek advice on how to help their teens maintain a healthy weight.
Approximately 14% of teens in the United States are overweight. Those who are more than 20% above their recommended weight range are considered to be obese. Diabetes, heart disease, gall stones, hypertension, and cancer are all risks that one takes in being obese. Overall, it will shorten your lifespan to be significantly overweight. However, the more immediate effects of obesity are the devastating social and emotional challenges that become seemingly unavoidable. Obese teens generally have difficulty making friends. Often they are involved in bullying, either as the perpetrator or the victim. Plus, their self esteem greatly suffers as they are criticized by others and recognize that they don't fit the mold for what society considers attractive, healthy, or normal. If a teen is obese and happy, they are usually the exception rather than the rule. Overall, their weight problem may lead to extreme teen depression, which can affect every aspect of a teen's life.
By the teenage years, kids are generally responsible for feeding themselves and choosing how to spend their free time. This can make it particularly challenging to help a teen overcome a weight problem. In order to have any success, you must first get the teen on board with the weight loss goal. Weight gain can be a very sensitive subject for many teens, who might respond with unhealthy dieting tactics that often fail. The only key to real weight loss is healthy eating and regular exercise. Therefore, help your teen set some goals that revolve around these behaviors and being healthy. Make sure all goals are attainable and have a set time for completion. Positive encouragement is most effective, whereas being critical of your teen will only make the problem worse. Although teen obesity can negatively affect every aspect of your teens physical, social, and emotional health, it can be overcome. However, if your teen continues to maintain an unhealthy weight or shows signs of a binge eating disorder, consult a professional for help.
Approximately 14% of teens in the United States are overweight. Those who are more than 20% above their recommended weight range are considered to be obese. Diabetes, heart disease, gall stones, hypertension, and cancer are all risks that one takes in being obese. Overall, it will shorten your lifespan to be significantly overweight. However, the more immediate effects of obesity are the devastating social and emotional challenges that become seemingly unavoidable. Obese teens generally have difficulty making friends. Often they are involved in bullying, either as the perpetrator or the victim. Plus, their self esteem greatly suffers as they are criticized by others and recognize that they don't fit the mold for what society considers attractive, healthy, or normal. If a teen is obese and happy, they are usually the exception rather than the rule. Overall, their weight problem may lead to extreme teen depression, which can affect every aspect of a teen's life.
By the teenage years, kids are generally responsible for feeding themselves and choosing how to spend their free time. This can make it particularly challenging to help a teen overcome a weight problem. In order to have any success, you must first get the teen on board with the weight loss goal. Weight gain can be a very sensitive subject for many teens, who might respond with unhealthy dieting tactics that often fail. The only key to real weight loss is healthy eating and regular exercise. Therefore, help your teen set some goals that revolve around these behaviors and being healthy. Make sure all goals are attainable and have a set time for completion. Positive encouragement is most effective, whereas being critical of your teen will only make the problem worse. Although teen obesity can negatively affect every aspect of your teens physical, social, and emotional health, it can be overcome. However, if your teen continues to maintain an unhealthy weight or shows signs of a binge eating disorder, consult a professional for help.
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
Teen Gangs
A recent survey showed that 7% of teens say they belong to a gang. By definition, a gang is just a group of teens or young adults who spend a large amount of time together. However, they have become notorious for their association with violence. In fact, gang related activity is the leading source of violence in our American schools. Teens who become members of gangs are often at higher risk for serious injury or death.
The age of gang members varies, but usually they are between 12 and 25 years old. Many rebellious teens become interested in gangs as a means of defiance. Identifying gangs can be done fairly easily as they are traditionally a group of the same ethnicity and use certain hand shakes or signs to communicate with each other. Plus, a large part of being in a gang is portraying your membership with your clothing. Often, gang members will wear a particular style, brand, or color of clothing. Also, bandannas and baseball caps may indicate teen gang activity.
Teens are frequently asked to perform acts of violence as a right of a passage for their induction into a gang. In addition, gang activity usually involves inhabiting a particular area of space, whether it is a neighborhood or a hall inside of the school building. Gang violence often occurs in the act of other gangs invading the “protected area.” Also, drug trafficking, stealing, sex crimes, and weapons can all be part of gang activity. In fact, 70% of all teen deaths caused by a fire arm are gang related. Schools try to eliminate gang activity with dress codes and supervision. However, if you think your teen may be in trouble, seek the help of a professional counselor.
The age of gang members varies, but usually they are between 12 and 25 years old. Many rebellious teens become interested in gangs as a means of defiance. Identifying gangs can be done fairly easily as they are traditionally a group of the same ethnicity and use certain hand shakes or signs to communicate with each other. Plus, a large part of being in a gang is portraying your membership with your clothing. Often, gang members will wear a particular style, brand, or color of clothing. Also, bandannas and baseball caps may indicate teen gang activity.
Teens are frequently asked to perform acts of violence as a right of a passage for their induction into a gang. In addition, gang activity usually involves inhabiting a particular area of space, whether it is a neighborhood or a hall inside of the school building. Gang violence often occurs in the act of other gangs invading the “protected area.” Also, drug trafficking, stealing, sex crimes, and weapons can all be part of gang activity. In fact, 70% of all teen deaths caused by a fire arm are gang related. Schools try to eliminate gang activity with dress codes and supervision. However, if you think your teen may be in trouble, seek the help of a professional counselor.
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
Teen Smoking Statistics
Most teens can tell you about the dangers of smoking. However, despite their knowledge, a large number of them light their first cigarette everyday. For awhile, studies were showing a sharp decline in the number of teen smokers, but as of lately, numbers reflect a slight incline. Smoking related illness kills more people than alcohol, AIDS, murder, suicide, illegal drugs, and car crashes combined. The majority of all adult smokers, began smoking as a teen. Awareness needs to be made about the effects of smoking in a way that will prevent the experimentation of smoking by teens.
According to teen smoking statistics, about 3,900 teens start smoking everyday. 1,500 of the 3,900 will become regular smokers.
Nine out of ten tobacco users start before they are eighteen years old.
The leading risk factor for teen smoking is having parents who smoke. Less than 2% of smokers have parents who do not smoke.
396,000 smokers, who started smoking as a teen, die each year from smoking related disease.
Each year 800,000 teens pick up a smoking habit that will follow them into adulthood.
Sixty percent of smokers start before the age of thirteen.
Nicotine has the potential of addicting more than 80% of the teens who experiment with it.
An estimated 440,000 people die each year from a smoking related disease.
The majority of teens believe that smoking is more dangerous than drinking. However, some of them do not recognize their own mortality and fail to conceptualize their futures. For this reason, talking to teens about the future health implications of smoking doesn't make much of an impact of their decision making for today. Parents may be the single biggest influence in a teens decision not to smoke. Talk to your teen about smoking. Set a good example and encourage healthy activities that discourage the use of tobacco, such as sports. Appeal to their vanity by discussing how smoking effects personal appearance and hygiene. Although teen smoking is a high risk for early death, it can sometimes be prevented with the right communication.
According to teen smoking statistics, about 3,900 teens start smoking everyday. 1,500 of the 3,900 will become regular smokers.
Nine out of ten tobacco users start before they are eighteen years old.
The leading risk factor for teen smoking is having parents who smoke. Less than 2% of smokers have parents who do not smoke.
396,000 smokers, who started smoking as a teen, die each year from smoking related disease.
Each year 800,000 teens pick up a smoking habit that will follow them into adulthood.
Sixty percent of smokers start before the age of thirteen.
Nicotine has the potential of addicting more than 80% of the teens who experiment with it.
An estimated 440,000 people die each year from a smoking related disease.
The majority of teens believe that smoking is more dangerous than drinking. However, some of them do not recognize their own mortality and fail to conceptualize their futures. For this reason, talking to teens about the future health implications of smoking doesn't make much of an impact of their decision making for today. Parents may be the single biggest influence in a teens decision not to smoke. Talk to your teen about smoking. Set a good example and encourage healthy activities that discourage the use of tobacco, such as sports. Appeal to their vanity by discussing how smoking effects personal appearance and hygiene. Although teen smoking is a high risk for early death, it can sometimes be prevented with the right communication.
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