The teenage years can be a trying time as they often test parenting skills to their limits. While a certain degree of teenage rebellion and defiance is considered normal, some teens spiral out of control and become a dangerous threat to themselves and others. It is important for parents to understand when a teen is in serious trouble and when to call for help.
Even the best teens may test their boundaries at times as they seek to gain independence. Arguing rules, lingering out past curfew once or twice, a slip in grades, and failure to complete chores are all common problems that occur with many teens. These situations should not be excused or taken lightly. However, they are not necessarily symptoms that merit major concern.
On the other hand, more serious problems such as drug/alcohol abuse, risky sexual behavior, gang activity, violence, conduct disorder or a lengthy period of extreme defiance are all signs of a teen who has behavior that is out of control. In addition, a drastic shift in your teens attitude could be a sign indicating one or more of these problems. Overall, if a teen has behavior concerns that pose a threat to their safety and cannot be modified, the situation is serious.
Out of control teens need an intervention. Cognitive behavioral therapy, family therapy, and other forms of mental health care may offer solutions that will change unwanted behaviors. There are psychological conditions such as Oppositional Defiance Disorder, Conduct Disorder, and a number of others that can cause or contribute to a teens out of control behavior. Any mental condition that plays a role in dangerous behavior needs to be treated by a professional. In addition, there are residential treatment centers that offer a safe environment for a troubled teen, while they get the therapeutic help they need. If your teen is out of control, do not wait to get treatment. Often, an early intervention produces the best results for change.
