Oftentimes teens have behavioral problems or other teen issues that may require special attention from the parent. Or, as a parent you may just want to set clear guidelines to prevent the big problems before they get a chance to start.
Behavior contracts have many benefits. For the teen it is a chance to have a clearly defined set of rules and consequences (both good and bad). This takes the guess work out of things and teens thrive on consistency so this is a great tool for them. It is also good for the teen to be included on the decision making for what consequences should follow what behaviors.
For parents the benefits are great. Parents get a chance to sit down with their teen, go over house rules and expectations. This is also the perfect time to discuss your family expectations on things such as drugs, alcohol and sexual behavior. Parents have a chance when sitting down formally with a child to discuss their values and morals. If teens never hear these things from a parent they really do not know what moral ground to stand on. Never assume that just your example is good enough, children of all ages need and deserve to be talked to about such matters.
Behavior contracts are useful for subjects like general behavior, driving, curfews, household chores, school grades and attendance, drug use, alcohol abuse, sexual activity and more.
